Wednesday, June 24, 2009

Cliff Notes

Summer has finally started for the Relle Clan. No new computer so this post has taken a few days...Here is the Cliff Notes version of the Summer of 2009 to date. Enjoy!

Mama Relle started off the summer with caramel highlights. This is the first time I've had any colored alterations since college...you know when it was burgundy-OK..purple. The bill was a bit of a shock, it hasn't lasted as long as I had hoped, but it has been fun playing my alter ego...Summer Jennifer (inspired by my friend Summer Karen).

With work behind us for the summer Jack and I headed to play in the McWilliam's backyard oasis. Between the play equipment, beautiful greenery, and fabulous patio with fan....why would they ever leave their house...or better yet, why would we ever go anywhere else?!?




There are a ton of super precious pictures from our day on Olivia's blog:



Oliviasavestheday.shutterfly.com




Fun times in the sun and lazy afternoon naps...that is how our summer was supposed to be and how it started...til...

our little man got SUPER SICK! He had a mild fever for 2 weeks, a high fever for a week, many trips to various doctors, was clingy (even to me), and way out of his sorts (fell asleep on the floor as pictured while Cars was on....that isn't our Jack).

So while we were quarantined in our house I made sure to make my little man was happy as possible. This is the lap tray I had been wanting to get him for breakfast on the floor in our room but it wasn't "practical" (which will change when the new carpet we ordered for our "anniversary" comes in), but him not feeling well and Learning Express having their 20% Storewide sale resulted in him getting a biscuit (a present, treat, surprise).

I also had them wrap up the original present I went in looking for...you can totally tell he doesn't feel good....Jack loves opening presents...this day, not so much. If you click to enlarge you can see the luggage behind Jack...where it sat for days as we kept postponing our trip to Louisiana. You all know how it turned out...we finally just had to unpack the bags (packing isn't fun, unpacking is really not fun, but unpacking when you haven't gone anywhere just SUCKS).

With smock on and tears still fresh on his cheeks from not feeling well Jack created masterpieces with his new Do-A-Dot Paints.

On Saturday morning when we were hoping to head out first thing in the morning to Louisiana two days past original depature date instead we headed to Children's Hospital because Jack's fever spiked again and he was just so pitiful we wanted answers. Apparently it was Thrush, we were given medicine, and this is when we headed home to unpack the luggage officially.

While being treated we continued to stay indoors and set up a fun tent loaded with lap tray, mini DVD player, and lots of comfy blankets and pillows for Jack to hang out in since it was entirely too hot for someone with a fever to be playing outside.

The best medicine for Jack was the delivery of balloons from Papa and Bebe. He loved them! Once the colored balloons died he didn't let that stop him from carrying them around, punching them, and putting them in places that at least once a day makes you jump thinking it is a person. As I type this 2 weeks later they are still floating proud, hopefully keeping the germs away for our upcoming round two trip to Louisiana.

I mean....do I need to say anything about this? I think the picture says it all...spoiled!

Jack was finally feeling better and it has been too hot even for a healthy person to go outside past 8 AM or before 8 PM but we braved it one evening after dinner to play with sidewalk chalk in the front yard. Nick showing us how it is done.....I was able to draw the Hopscotch board but was clueless on how to actually Hopscotch.

This was supposed to be a precious picture of Jack running through the Hopscotch board....but it just didn't work out that way did it?!?! Although pretty sexy view of Nick's legs!
Not nearly as graceful as Nick...but I am totally blaming it on the fact that we didn't leave the house for close to 9 days, the blinds were drawn, and the most exercise in between naps was walking to the fridge from the couch.
Proof of our just letting things go....powdered donuts....Jack doesn't eat stuff like that....at least he didn't. After the spout of sickness he is now addicted to powdered donuts, apple juice, Fruit Loops, and an assortment of cartoons. Who knew about Noggin-Thanks Betsy-I think!

Thank goodness there were packages rolling in to help cheer our little man up...Here is one from GG and Mac. It came in a super cute Mickey package and was filled with Mickey clothes. Thanks GG & Mac!
And then there was one from Nana and Gramps. A book and a watercolor Handy Mandy book. Worked out great since Handy Mandy is one of his new favorites...along with Dora, Mickey Mouse Clubhouse, Elmo....
And a package full of Nemo styled cookies from Bebe that were served at the pool party that was thrown in honor of Jack (and Uncle Joey's birthday), but the Relle Clan wasn't present. Jack enjoyed the cookies but had the most fun with the peanuts.
Feeling better, out in the world again....What better a place to rejoin society than at Gymbo's new big house (as Jack calls it). Gymboree moved to a new location...no longer in a shady shopping center, really fancy inside, but even farther from our house....we can't help but make the commute though...we're obsessed (in a healthy way though I think?!?!)
"Hey Mom-Watch me!"

"Come on Olivia, let's go play basketball."
My love -who is worth the drive and further to play with Gymbo.
In celebration of Gymboree's new location there was a Gymbo Party where a real live Gymbo came to play.
Jack was VERY unsure of Gymbo at first but came around by the end. Here they are catching bubbles...Jack catching them from afar as usual. Argh-There was supposed to be a Hip, Hip Hooray cute picture of Karen, Olivia, Jack, Gymbo, and I here but it too didn't pull up....Maybe I'll do a separate post with all the missed pictures from this post. Maybe if the computer cooperates is the real stipulation.
We had a little project up our sleeves (that we started last summer mind you) so Friday morning we headed out early to the Arboretum. No crowds seeing as it was out of control hot...but ended up getting some great pictures and having a fun, yet HOT fun as a family outdoors. Profile shots are my favorite...he is always so angelic looking....which we all know the truth on that one. Must be the camera angle huh?!?
Running in the fields.
Tossing pebbles in the pond with Dad.
Being silly with Mom.
Happy Father's Day! Jack and I woke up in bed on Father's Day morning (yes, he was in bed with us...another summer sick habit that we had corrected, but is back). Yet when we woke up Nick wasn't in bed with us...that is because he was out mowing the yard. What Dad does that on Father's Day (especially at 8 when all the other Dads in the neighborhood probably have the morning to sleep in)-our Dad because he is the best. We had been non stop with Housewarming parties and such that it needed to be done. So Jack and I met him outside with his first gift. Don't you love his little Cars night time briefs?!?
Jack gave Nick a board book...Just Like Daddy to add to their bedtime collection. Nick was starting to get a little burnt out on the My Daddy book which didn't require Nick reading because Jack and Nick could both recite it by memory.
Jack and I tricked Nick by wrapping his gift in a Vera Bradley box (that is a whole other post to explain why we have so many boxes from Vera Bradley hanging around to wrap all the parts of his gift in different sized boxes). I think tricking him worked, but was nervous because Jack helped me wrap and knew what the gift was....and he isn't a very good secret keeper....but he did good!
Nick finally got up to speed with the rest of the world (even Bebe) and got an iphone for Father's Day. It came with a protection plan, blue protective case (mine is red from mother's day-which I've since gotten upgraded although the phone is acting up so I'm taking it in this week), a car charger, and a blue tooth ear piece.
After opening gifts and having cinnamon rolls we headed to a mid morning escape in the McWilliam's backyard. Olivia and Jack always have so much fun together. They look like siblings (could pass as twins) and act like it too. So glad they've been able to grow up together.
A lunch of grilled chicken schwarma on pita bread with Tazzikki which went perfectly with the hummus pita chip appetizer, and was finished off with strawberry shortcake to go since it was close to nap time.
After a nap we left again to complete our overbooked weekend (for real Saturday alone almost killed me: PTA meeting, shopping for gifts, Weddning Shower Wine Tasting downtown, and Housewarming Party) at a swimming party for one of my students at a local public pool. Jack did GREAT in the water thanks to the life vest that the pool loaned us...we're borrowing Ashley's for our trip to Louisiana because we're having troubles finding one similar and he seems to not like to swim without it. Thanks Ashley!
Kathryn, Jack, Josh, and I. Happy Birthday Ladner Kiddos! Happy Father's Day Nick!
I wrote curriculum the following week so Monday, Jack and Nick did the grocery shopping but then layed low to catch up from our worldwind weekend. Tuesday while Jack was at school Nick did a little...I mean a lot....of work in the garage which I swear gets out of control so easily it is scary. On "the list" is a shed for the backyard...but it isn't in the top 3, so we will have to make do and maintain probably a few more times to allow for us to park at least one car until we can get some stuff out of there.
Here it was after he finished...much better. Still one car but you don't kill yourself trying to get to that one car and you can see the floor.

So there you have it. You're up to date. The computer is on the list but got trumped by carpet so I'll do my best, don't forget about us, and those in Louisiana-can't wait to see you soon. This time though I'm not packing as far in advance and we're not telling Jack where we're going til we are on the road. Happy Summer 2009!!

Friday, June 12, 2009

School's Out For Summer...

School is out for summer....we've been dealing with a low grade fever since Memorial Day and the past few days after multiple trips to the doctor and a half trip to Children's Hospital with extremely high fevers, off and on vomits from coughing, and rag doll baby. Our trip to Louisiana, which was packed for, was postponed as is...future blog entries.

Our computer is just done...no other way to put it....our goal is to use our tax refund money to purchase a new computer (one that will last and can handle all our needs) so until then....blog entries will be few and far between because no venture on this hunk of junk results in anything other than foul language, anxiety issues, and in general...anger.

Until then I'll keep my list of pictures to post, updates on how much my little man is growing jotted down, and figuring out a way in which we can afford what we want/need to get the blog back up and running.

Here is hoping that in a few hours....that is right it is 12:47 AM and in a few hours we are hoping to leave for Louisiana finally.....although our midnight vomit in our bed/bath might not be a good indication on our morning's departure. Keep your fingers crossed!

Saturday, June 6, 2009

The Price of Jack

How do I set the limit on the price of Jack...well, below is what led up to my realizing what the price has been set at if I continue on this path...

The Relle Clan headed to McGowen on the last Saturday of May for the end of the year carnival. While Nick worked the bounce house (I volunteered baking for the bake sale) Jack and I walked around & Jack did a little ring tossing.
At the end of Nick's shift him and Jack took a trip on the giant bounce house slide Nick was stationed at together.
That smile just lights up my heart!
This smile too!
Warmth!
After playing around we had some Dicky's dinner of hot dog for Jack, bbq sandwich for Nick, and my turkey leg for Jack. It was almost bigger than him...but he handled up on it no prob.
Wednesday of the last week of school due to the scores resulting in McGowen being Exemplary again the administration, 5th grade teachers, and Nick (boys of the school band named Staff Infection that had just previously preformed at the Pep Rally-Nick's band name is Winston & he sang-so proud I tell you) had their hair mohawked & dyed blue. I had the honor of being Nick's beautician!
I've seen way too many pics of this, with way too many chins, and then saw one where we were HUGE on the jumbotron....I bet some of those future first graders on the front row were squished in my chins. Notice the pants...always shocks people when I reply that they were already in the closet on a hanger and get worn for things other than playing in a British Band named Staff Infection in front of elementary students and parents. Thanks Jeffrey!
Staff Infection
Here is where the price of Jack comes in....I work my ass off for over 12 hours a day at least 2 days a week in a room with no cell phone reception or window while someone else raises my sweet angel (that is not counting the weeks where the days are longer, the number of late nights are greater, and work is continued at home). The parents expect way more than I'm paid for, the paperwork and district expectations are (pardon my french) bullshit, and you know me....I take all that above and beyond because I don't do anything half ass...well, by the end of the year I think that this picture although appreciated and unnecessary on the part of the parents (don't get all "how rude is she to not be grateful for the gifts"-I am SUPER GRATEFUL), is still disheartening to me because Nick and I's gifts combined no where near total the price of how much I missed my Jack while working this year! Thanks to one particular mom who had already spoiled me with a mani/pedi/wine the week before (her son was my butterfly...came in trouble with a capital T, long hair, thought he was living in High School Musical and by the end of the year with Nick and I both teaching/mentoring him...he made a 180 and left a model student), I'll use the wine glass to inspire me to figure out a plan of action and the notepad to document it all so that I learn to balance OR better yet, get out of the system of teaching and into the system of Mommy. We made it through alive and now I'm ready for the summer with my little man!!!!!!!!!
I do feel that I should quote two particular cards that did touch me and helped to stomach all of the time I missed this year with Jack and Nick a tish more...but not fully:

Miriam's Mom included on the card attached to her summer breakfast for my family basket these sweet words:

Mrs. Relle,
Thank you so very much for everything that you have done this year. Miriam has truly thrived in your care. I could not have asked for a better teacher for her. You have managed to get her enthused about school again and instill within her a love of learning that will last a lifetime.

Thank you,
Jessica

Lucas's Mom wrote at the top of her card attached to wonderful gift cards the following note:

Jenn,
Lucas wrote his card first, I don't know what else I can say...he said it all. I'm so thankful Lucas had you for first grade. Thank you for seeing what a smart, loving kid he is. Have a great summer.

Michelle

PS- Your homework is....do not write us a thank you note, just enjoy

Here is what Lucas wrote:
Dear Mrs. Relle You=#1,

You are truly the best teacher I've ever heard, seen, and learned from. You are the best person in my world.

Sincerely,

Lucas

The ironic thing is that these two were my brightest, yet almost most challenging students (no one tops my little friend that thanfully will be next door in first again next year and not in my classroom) this year with tons of potential...just needed someone to work with them to make use of it, learn how to work with their anger issues, and love them for who they were rather than try to change them into something they aren't and will never be. Honestly I think they would have died in any other class....but those misfits just become my goal and in the end....I love them the most! I pray that next year their teacher continue with their growth!

Tuesday, June 2, 2009

Thanks for your thoughts....

Ashley's surgery went well. At this point they are thinking they caught it before it got into her lymph nodes and I'm unsure of what the step to fighting/keeping this terrible cancer away will be.....but that is a good report to hear and now we hope for her to have a speedy recovery. This has been a year at McGowen with friends, spouses, and students going though some rough times...it is amazing what the power of thoughts can do for people. Thanks guys!

Monday, June 1, 2009

Asking for your thoughts...

My team mate Ashley found out Friday that a mole she had a biopsy done on Tuesday was melanoma. They called her Mom on Friday to come and get her from school and take her straight to the plastic surgeon. I won't go into all the details but it is in her tissue, they are scanning her tomorrow to see if is has spread, and then tomorrow afternoon she is having the mole (plus 1 inch diameter around) and a lymph node removed. I just hope they it has not spread and that they are able to remove it all...she is only 24 and has been told that if it has spread that chemo won't be very successful in fighting it.....Wear sunscreen everyone (I'm guilty in the past as well)....life is too short as is...don't add to it.....



Please keep Ashley in your thoughts....



And if anyone knows of someone to take hexes off of buildings...Nick and I's school clearly has something up because there has been more tragedy since they opened their doors last August that one staff can take.

Congrats Jack (& Mommy)!

Last week was for sure the second most difficult of the year (first being when Jack started Daycare). The demands at school were beyond what should be expected given the time, pay, conditions (no window or cell reception this day in age...unacceptable). I was at work til after 9 every night working non-stop to get it all done due to responsibilities before school, during my lunch, and during my planning period...all while planning Jack's end of the year party on Friday since I was the Room Mom this last semester...And if I don't say so myself-all the hard work and taking the morning off to be there (making up for Muffins with Mom & Beyond) was TOTALLY WORTH IT to see my little man and his friends having fun (and the smile on his teachers face for the festivities and their gifts).

You know me-nothing simple. Each child got a goodie bag with a CD full of fabulous Toddler Tunes labeled all cute, a Gymbo color sheet, stickers, PlayDoh, and a Toddler Yearbook I created with the help of the parents completing a simple form for me. The snack was Goldfish with juice. And the teachers got personalized stationary with gift cards to On the Border and for Manicures (per their favorites from the questionnaire that I gave them a few weeks ago). The Assistant Teachers got Thank You postcards and fancy chocolates for their help too. One Assistant Teacher in particular that Jack LOVES got a Starbucks gift card...she will be his Lead Teacher this Summer as his teacher is traveling.
Couldn't just wrap them any old way...matched the clip art and font to the yearbook cover.
I got there at snack time and help Mrs. Cristina pass it out...btw-It was school wide pajama day. Jack was SUPER confused on why I was there.
Then it was time to go to the community room for GYMBOREE. That is right....I kick Room Mom A$$. Mary Ellen was so sweet and in the middle of their move to the new location she came with Linda's (Jack's old teacher) sister Stacy. It was a fabulous time for the kids, a way for Jack to shine (and his Mom too), and hopefully gets Gymboree some more business (and Jack friends in his class) for this Summer at their new place...which I can't wait to see. It was so cute though because they were so shy at first (especially when asked to sit on the parachute...which they aren't normally allowed to do).
After a little Welcome and getting to know you...
Everyone got up to shake their maracas...
And catch some bubbles on their fingers and their noses...
this was a hit for them all...especially Ms. Rebecca...I'll have to get some for them to use this Summer when Jack is there a few days a week.
"This is AWESOME...Mom is here, Mary Ellen is here, Gymbo is here, and there are bubbles...this is the BEST DAY EVER!!"
It was finally time to ring Gymbo's bell and tell him Good-Bye...This was easier for the kids and Jack than saying good-bye to Mom for Jack...it broke my heart to hear him crying for me down the hall...but at the same time...I loved, loved him grabbing my leg during Gymboree and hearing that he didn't want me to leave him....I'm so glad we both survived this year....I didn't think we would...but we did. Thanks Gymboree for helping make this End of the Year Party such a success! They even gave goodies bags with stickers, color sheets, & free passes for classes..... :)